Good day people. How are you doing?
It's interesting to learn how autocratic some of us are.
I find it interesting that such people expect others to stop feeling hurt
immediately just because we tendered a half-hearted apology (filled with
self-justification) YET we expect to be given the space to air our feelings if
we are the aggrieved party. It still boils down to #Empathy...
When you hurt a loved one, you ought to apologize without
trying to justify your actions. That thing you called an apology is probably
similar to what a defense attorney would present in court - absolutely no
admission of guilt. YOU are tearing vital relationships apart with such an
attitude.
Yesterday, I realised as I was arguing with a client that
tendering an unreserved apology to him would take nothing from my person and
win him over. We had been at loggerheads for a while. I literally saw him melt.
Do your relationship a favour, tender an unreserved
apology today and watch tensions dissolve.
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