I got totally cured from the "virtuous woman" syndrome (attending to EVERY chore and not allowing others participate) when I heard of how a fellow "virtuous woman" slumped and died after returning from a Holy Ghost conference.
She worked, cooked, cleaned, took care of the kids and everyone else but herself. She was a year younger than I am. I was especially annoyed when I read the husband's eulogy. He asked what he would do without her. In my mind, the answer was "house chores".
Sir, you can't leave your wife to be caring for and raising the kids you both brought to this world by herself and be acting surprised/amazed/disgusted when it starts telling on her physical appearance/mental health/physical health.
My sister, as you are taking care of everyone else, please take care of yourself too. Don't leave your children motherless because you are trying to "build your home". Your family deserves a physically fit and mentally whole wife/mother. Don't "tight the world to your chest". You will be celebrated, in Jesus'Name.
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