OBEY THE GOLDEN RULE

You think you're cheating on your spouse and they decide to make it an open relationship... Why are you vexing?
If you say cheating is bad (like me), then don't cheat (and expect your spouse to stay in the War Room, praying against the strange man/woman). If you say it's natural for a man/woman to cheat, then understand when your spouse cheats too.

Personally, I think if you believe you can't be faithful to a partner, either stay unmarried and continue fornicating or let your partner know that your vows don't include faithfulness. Be reasonable enough to understand that your partner also cannot be faithful to one partner for the same reasons that you can't be.

If you think (like me) that your partner has the capacity to be faithful, then you also have the capacity to be faithful. Go ye and do likewise.

If a man can be forgiven for cheating, a woman can also be forgiven for cheating. If a woman should be lynched for cheating, so should a man. A man's cheating is not better than a woman's cheating and a woman's cheating is not worse than a man's cheating. No amount testosterone, oestrogen or progesterone can change it.

The child a cheating woman conceives may belong to her husband or the side guy. A DNA test will cure the confusion. That's the same test that a cheating man needs to conduct when his side chic tells him she's pregnant. One is not more expensive than the other. If you choose to have more than one partner, at least have enough sense to use protection so that you will not involve innocent children in your selfishness. Also, you need to help us reduce the spread of STIs/STDs/AIDS. Your behavior is not helping...

Someone told me of a radio show where women were asked to choose between A) Faithful and Stingy Husband and B) Benevolent and Unfaithful Husband. As usual, I chose C) Benevolent and Faithful Husband.

While I am averse to A or B, there is still an option D - Unfaithful and Stingy Husband. That's double jeopardy mehn... My friend, choose a struggle...

The bottom line for me is "If you can't take it, don't serve it to others". Obey the Golden Rule , my friend... Have you eaten?