ABOUT POTENTIAL

All of you shouting "potential" upandan, don't you realise that POTENTIAL ENERGY does not achieve anything if there is no WORK DONE?

Energy is the ABILITY to do work. If the force does not move through a distance, it doesn't mean anything...

I've found out in my few years that women are just as guilty as men in this regard, though women tend to make less noise about their potential. Too many people are playing safe, going nowhere and doing nothing but expecting to be celebrated just because they have potential. You are like that servant that hid his talent. Take it to the bank, hmm hmm; invest it, hmm hmm.

You know how everything ought to be done but you won't lift a muscle. You have ideas that will change the world but you won't move. Today, I say to you, add some EFFORT to your potential. Then, you won't have to be asking your girlfriend to borrow you 1 million Naira so you can pay her bride price. You won't have to be slaving for a man and be expecting him to buy you Brazilian hair (your own case saddens me because you are actually working but you're wasting your potential. You that could have been cooking and cleaning for a fee but you'll rather put your efforts in unproductive ventures).

In fact, let me go there....You'll be shouting about how much you've done for him and I'm trying HARD to empathize. What I'm thinking really is "Who sent you na?" If the only reason you're investing your time and resources in that man is so he can marry you, your motives are wrong. If you choose to invest your resources that way, please don't let Hephzibah stop you. I just find it really hard to empathize with those that don't realise that doing things like that reek of desperation, even after three or four heartbreaks. Of course, the guys that take from women this way are opportunists but I have to say that if you keep dating opportunists, you need to take a break and check the vibes you're giving out so you can work on it and do better in the next relationship.

Let me get my "potential" out of the bed and do something productive today. Enjoy your day.