You're going on and on about how no one cares about you and how no one checks up on you. No one wants to help YOU...Bla Bla Bla Pause...
How many people have YOU checked up on? How many people have YOU helped? How many others have YOU helped achieve their dreams? Many times, just a click, a chat, a phone call is all that it'll take you to help someone achieve his or her dreams. But you're too self-centered to notice the needs of others and to reach out.
You want your congregation/group members etc to be committed to your vision. You want to do this and do that etc. Have you asked if they've paid their house rent?
You expect others to prioritize YOUR needs over theirs. Why? Some will manipulate others with "The will of the Lord"... Kontiniu...
Dale Carnegie nailed it when he said " People don't care how much you know until they know how much you care" (How to win friends and influence people). If you haven't read that book and you're hoping to influence others...Hurry and get your copy. There's a lot to learn...
No matter how "noble" your objectives are, until you begin to care for others, you can't go far. Ministry is all about meeting the needs of God's people and TRUSTING GOD to meet yours. Manipulating others to get them to meet YOUR needs is erm, MANIPULATION (Except if you're paying. Then that's called BUSINESS, lol).
Enjoy your day.
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